Your Existence Bothers People: A Guide for Women Who Trigger Without Trying
Your Existence Bothers People: A Guide for Women Who Trigger Without Trying
“Your Existence Bothers People: A Guide for Women Who Trigger Without Trying”
By Kristen Nicole Mann
In every season of your life, you will meet people who are confused, irritated, or intimidated by your presence not because you’ve done anything wrong, but because your clarity exposes their chaos.
This e-book is for the women who never fit into the box others tried to place them in.
The women who grew and were punished for it.
The women who trigger people simply by existing.
“Your Existence Bothers People” is a deeply honest guide that unpacks:
✨ Why emotionally intelligent women get targeted
✨ How manipulators use confusion as a weapon
✨ Why your silence feels like rebellion to chaotic people
✨ How to walk away without guilt, shame, or explanation
✨ The emotional, spiritual, and psychological patterns behind being “too much” for unhealed people
✨ How to protect your peace without shrinking your light
This is not just a book, it’s validation. It’s language for what you’ve lived.
It’s emotional strategy for the woman who refuses to keep carrying people who refuse to grow.
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, projected on, blamed for someone else’s dysfunction, or punished for your confidence…
you are exactly who this was written for.
And if you’ve been following the viral Threads about emotional intelligence, silence as a boundary, and manufactured confusion …this book goes even deeper.
It’s time you understand why your existence bothers people…
and why that’s not something you need to fix it’s something you need to own.




